Well I talked to this guy for a few days. I wasn't really attracted to him but the more I got to know him I started getting interest. ( when I mean got to know, I meant texting). I looked at his other social media platforms, he's very sociable and has a lot of friends. Anyways he's done all the initiating and we decided to go out and get drinks after. I asked if we were inviting other people. He said he wasn't going to invite other people. Anyways, well life happened and I got anxiety/depression. I'm feeling very gloomy and I didn't want to ruin the night. So I told him I had an emergency and I can't hang out and apologized. He replied, " Oh no! What happened is everything ok?" " It's okay. There's always a next time." I replied saying, " Oh you know life being a jerk. Thank you and sorry again! Have a drink for me!" haven't heard from him since. I don't think Im ever going to hear from him again. I feel bad and I really wanted to meet him but not when Im like this. Now Im bummed because I wanted to get to know him more, and I wanted it to be a date too. When someone cancels last minute, how do guys usually feel? It sucks because when I start to like people I push them away because Im scared.
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Honestly, he probably just felt like you didn't want to see him and made an excuse not to come last minute. There's still time to make new plans and maybe try and explain how apologetic you are that you had to cancel! He'll probably be happy to see you making plans with him.0