So the other week this girl messaged me on Facebook. We started talking, I got her number and we are still talking. We met up for drinks about a week ago, she got lost on the way to the bar and was a little late. She called and asked if I wanted to meet at her place or at the bar. I said bar, as we left we hugged and she told me to text her when I got home. I went on vacation last week and now I'm back in town. We texted some what while I was away. I texted yesterday and asked her what made her message me on Facebook. She said that she was with Kirsten (a mutual friend) and I came up on her Facebook and she said she had never seen him before and wouldn't know who i was, Kirsten told her who I was and that she should message me.
To me it seems like she is interested in me. If she wasn't interested then she wouldn't of messaged me or grab a drink with me the other week or invite me to her house for a drink. I was planing on asking her to hang out again this week but haven't done it yet. Today is also her birthday. Thoughts?
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah man. Ask her out. Jeez...0
Most Helpful Guy
Hope you sent her a Happy Birthday wish. Better yet, called her to say it. Women are really, really into special calendar dates.
A first meeting in person is really not a date. You are still strangers. It is possible that she is not as interested in you as you are of her.
I have been single more of my adult life than being with someone. One thing I learned a long time ago is to never do a first meeting where alcohol is involved. Just a thought...0