Basically we were watching it and one of the sex scenes came on and I didn't care too much even though I'm insecure but after he then rewound it back to the start because he was unsure about whether she was carrying something down there! Like male gentials lol anyways I said why did we have to go back as I felt uncomfortable, we got in a massive argument and then he tells me the girl we were watching had quite a nice pair of boobs actually and that made me feel awful :( I think it's because I thought he just watched it and didn't think anything but he watched it and thought that :(
Most Helpful Guy
Nearly ALL men are attracted to attractive women's naked bodies. We look at other women and admire their shapes and their parts. That's part of what makes us MEN. It isn't just normal, it's INSTINCTUAL, and we evolved those instincts over millions of years, so it isn't something that's going to change anytime soon.
BUT... that doesn't mean in any way that it's a threat to you or your relationship. Just because we admire other women's bodies doesn't mean we don't like yours, and it doesn't mean we're going to cheat or leave you, or that we wish you looked like her. In fact, one of the REASONS we look at other women is because they look DIFFERENT than the girl we're with. It doesn't matter what we have - we're attracted to VARIATION. This means that even guys who are attracted to blonde Barbie types, and would only date such girls, still enjoy looking at tiny Asians or "thick" black girls or svelte raven-haired beauties - because they're DIFFERENT. And that makes for pleasant fantasies, even when we don't want that in our reality.
But do you know what WILL drive a man away? His girlfriend's unjustified INSECURITIES.
He's never going to meet those girls on TV, much less talk with them, much less leave you for them or cheat on you with them. They are no threat to you or your relationship - but your insecurities ARE, because they will get you upset and drive a wedge between you.2
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Most Helpful Girl
That was insensitive for him. I'd love to know how he'd feel if you rewind back to a scene and then comment on another guy's dick or abs and gushed about how hot you found it. Guys can be silly like that sometimes and not realize how their actions can hurt Some things you keep to yourself in a relationship. Me and my boyfriend have a thing about not commenting on others because we both just don't see how it's relevant or even worth mentioning. It's not like anyone is going to clap and be thrilled about hearing their boyfriend or girlfriend is finding someone or something else attractive. It's useless information. If guys like my boyfriend can get it then I don't see why the hell other guys can't get their heads wrapped around it. I've never had to hear my boyfriend talk or gush about other girls or their body parts and I don't do it towards him :)3