I met this girl on Tinder, so we have never met each other in person yet, after exchanging a few messages she let me have her phone number after I asked and agreed to meet up with me and on the day we were supposed to meet she sends me a text message saying that her boss wants her to stay longer at work, so that she won't be able to make it, initially in my mind I feel like I should give up on her but at the same time I feel tempted to give her another chance because I don't have many options with girls, I understand and know already that girls in general expect guys to plan and set up the first few dates, but if a girl cancels a plan or a date is the guy still expected to do the rescheduling or the person who does the canceling expected to do the the scheduling then? I'm confused, because I don't know if I've been educated the wrong way but if a girl flakes or cancels a date with a guy and let's say if she is still interested will she be the one to reschedule a date with a guy or is she still going to expect the guy to do the scheduling and the planning?
If a girl flakes, cancels a first date with a guy, does that usually mean she has lost interest?
What Girls Said 6
If she cancels and doesn't set a new, concrete date, she's gotten cold feet and has likely lost interest.0
I constantly cancel dates with people because of work and personal issues.
When I totally change my mind though, I DO send them an email.0
Has she said she wanted to reschedule, and if yes, has she offered another time to meet?
If she wants to meet she will ask :-)0
She probably lost intrest and cheated on you1
What Guys Said 15
yeah thats what it means... unfortunately, women have the communication skills of a 2 year old child and would rather play mind games and give hints rather than communicate like grown adults1
It depends: sometimes she might not be that into him, other times she might just be unsure/wanting to make sure he likes her. She might re-arrange the date for another day, in which case she probably does like him but wants to make sure he's into her. Otherwise, if she doesn't re-arrange, or makes excuses, she doesn't like him.0
It is possible that what she told you was the truth. That sort of thing happens.
I would have told her to get back to me later, with a time that worked for her.
If she did not get back, that would andwer the question.0
If she doesn't offer up an alternative, it probably means she has lost interest.
If you met her on Tinder it's 100% certain she lost interest or was never interested in going on a date with you in the first place (she could even be married).0
I'd say so.0
Ditch her and move on.1
Lmao why the fuk u freaking out over some chick on tinder? Yea she flaked lol0
Yep.. she has lost the interest0
it means she just not ready , I'd imagine a lot of dates made through online sites and aps get canceled at the last minute0