What if a guy "really cares about you" but says he needs time to do his own thing and get his life back together because he got out of a serious relationship a few months ago and it really messed him up... have you ever been in this situation? or is he just not that into me? everything seemed fine until I think we got too serious for him and he started to back off and ignore me... thoughts?
also - should I wait around for him and still try to hang out with him, or give him space?
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no. don't hang around for a guy, that comes across as desperate. give him space and date other people...be there but kinda in the distance. don't make this guy a focus unless its as friends when he is over his old relationship and not just on the rebound is the right time.1