I completely destroyed my life. I am 24 and ruined my life. I feel like a complete loser in terms of everything. I never had a boyfriend or even sex. I live at home with my mother and a sister whom i hate with all my heart. I should have left a long time ago but i didn't and now i regret it. i missed out on a lot in life by not dating and i feel like no man is going to want me cause i have nothing to offer. i dont have friends, job and i am really depressed. What should i do? i am really... angry. I feel like my older sister ruined me, she used to bully me around and i had extremely low confidence because of that... please help.
Most Helpful Guy
my older brother bullied me and my self esteem and confidence were ruined. it took a long time... into my 25+ to 40s to repair it. Live is about learning to live, love, experience. Start living.
A lot of what was done to you was someone elses sickness and choice. You didn't have a choice on what dump you were born into. But now, it becomes your choice. Many many people before you have experienced as bad or wose and climbed out of it... worked, prayed, learned, loved, went to church.
Sex is a terrible idea for you right now, last thing on the list. just make friends, and become social... stop competing.
Most Helpful Girl
If you can't/refuse to do this task. No one can help you. You are not looking for help... you are just whining here eveday.
What is more important.
Pick 3 and Put in order of prooity
* get a job (if you don't have one now)
* go back to school
* my job
* earn/save money
* get a boyfriend
* reconnect with your family
* lose your virginity0