I completely destroyed my life. I am 24 and ruined my life. I feel like a complete loser in terms of everything. I never had a boyfriend or even sex. I live at home with my mother and a sister whom i hate with all my heart. I should have left a long time ago but i didn't and now i regret it. i missed out on a lot in life by not dating and i feel like no man is going to want me cause i have nothing to offer. i dont have friends, job and i am really depressed. What should i do? i am really... angry. I feel like my older sister ruined me, she used to bully me around and i had extremely low confidence because of that... please help.
my older brother bullied me and my self esteem and confidence were ruined. it took a long time... into my 25+ to 40s to repair it. Live is about learning to live, love, experience. Start living.
A lot of what was done to you was someone elses sickness and choice. You didn't have a choice on what dump you were born into. But now, it becomes your choice. Many many people before you have experienced as bad or wose and climbed out of it... worked, prayed, learned, loved, went to church.
Sex is a terrible idea for you right now, last thing on the list. just make friends, and become social... stop competing.
If you can't/refuse to do this task. No one can help you. You are not looking for help... you are just whining here eveday. What is more important. Pick 3 and Put in order of prooity * get a job (if you don't have one now) * go back to school * my job * earn/save money * get a boyfriend * reconnect with your family * lose your virginity
if you can't get a job use the time to work on your other strengths and attributes: e. g. go on a course, get professional qualifications, try volunteering (costs no money, will fill your spare time up, help you meet new people and give you qualifications), get some hobbies that you genuinely enjoy doing (not just because you feel like you ought to be doing them). give your sister something to envy!
Lots of people feel they have missed out on 'being young'. Fortunately for you, you are still young. And what someone has to offer is not based on how many people they have dated/had sex with/how many drugs they have taken/etc. Do whatever you would like to do with your life, and don't dwell on the past: it doesn't exist anymore. Only the present exists.
im in a same situation like you, never touched a girl before, im a virgin, dont have any friends, dont have a job, and im also 24. i would suggest you to have some hope and have some patience. and just hold on
You are still young to feel that way. Find a church or group of people where you can have a support group. Make some friends outside your family. Just forgive them of what you have been through with them it will make you feel better than to hate them for the rest of your life.