Tell me that you don't see a prospective future for you and me. Give credible reasons, not petty ones. Be especially careful. Your excuses will define you. Make them respectable ones.
Remind me that you admire my positions, but do not desire to fill me with false hope. If you have a referral to give to someone you feel would be a better use of my time, give me any relevant information you can, and assurance that this would be a wiser investment.
I will try to hold on to you as a contact for networking purposes, but I would honor your wishes to end any immediate romantic pursuit.
It's really that simple.
Never tell a guy that he is inferior in some way. Never creepshame him. Don't go behind his back. Don't make empty promises. Don't be petty. Never humiliate him in front of others on purpose.
And especially do not abuse reporting systems on him! If he loses his job, school standing, or freedom because of an unfounded rumor you started, just because you wanted to rub in to him how much you don't reciprocate his romantic feelings - especially when he never did anything that would warrant legal action - that is how you make a lifelong enemy.
Don't do it. If you do, then he will, for decades, tell everyone what a vile wretched bitch he thinks you are. You will be Cruella deVil in the eyes of everyone he knows. And his aunt and grandparents will hate you even more. They will see you as little better than a rapist.
Trust me, you do not want to put yourself in a drama like that one.
Be honest, and just say you aren't interested. If he doesn't accept it, just say your 'girlfriend' wouldn't appreciate it. If he can't get the message, then, leave, or just tell him outright, "Just FCK OFF, OK?" really loud. The security guys in the club will deal with it.. .
Just straight up tell me that you don't want anything with me. It's always gonna bother me, of course. The girl I like is rejecting me, it's never gonna be an "oh, ok, have fun :) ", but honesty is the only way to reject someone without hurting them a lot. You could always sugarcoat it, go all cliche, or whatever, but anyone can look past that bullshit, it's obvious. Just be honest.
The best way is actually to be blunt believe it or not, tell him you dont mind friendship but you're not interested in a relationship. Trying to put us down gently frustrates us far more in the long run, we can get over you in a day if you just say no.
Honesty is always the best. If you think someone is interested in a relationship with you and you do not feel the same then tell them so. It will end the dancing around the issue and all the coy games not being frank and honest can cause. And he will respect you more for doing what so many won't. Being honest and up-front.
I don't know, just be honest and nice and try to give him the feeling that it's not because he's not good enough.
If you are just causally talking... I'd say something like " I'm sorry, you seem to be a great person but I'm currently not looking for a relationship or anything like that. Still recovering from my last one and I wanna enjoy single life for a bit longer. Don't take it personally "
I don't know, but one thing I don't like is when you girls say you have a boyfriend, when I know you're just saying that because it's easy. I've approached hundreds of girls, and I've heard some of the dumbest excuses, yet not once have a had a girl tell me flat out she just wasn't interested.
Just say you're not looking for a relationship right now. If he asks if there is a future between the two of you just friend zone him and tell him how you can't see him as anything more then that. Any decent man with a decent self esteem will understand, accept it, and move on to the next woman who seems available.
You could simply say "let's stick with a nice chat from time to time... is that okay for you?". Just being honest in other words. Even if it hurts it's always appreciated if you're open and honest :D Which I'm quite convinced, you are :D
say ur face structure is not ideal and i think ur maxilla and chin are a bit recessed too which itself doesn't let me be attracted to you physically and the face that you are under 6'5'' with a dick under 10" and a small frame makes u a bit too much of a genetic for me to want to copulate with. And ur bug eyes are creepy.
Just saying you don't see a relationship happen. It was nice talking and getting to know each other. Say you hope they find a nice lady that makes them happy and so on if they ask for reasons or anything else then I don't know
To sleep with us and say you were wrong about us, haha jokes aside, it depends on each person some may take bluntness well while others may need a softer touch, depending on the guy your asking about may different tact in letting him know
"Hey I really enjoy hanging out with you, I just want to make it clear that we're friends and nothing more. I'm just not into you that way, you know what I am into though? Ice Cream. I'd marry that stuff."
Or something like that. The basic model I typically use (or tell others about) is: 1. Compliment them 2. State issue directly, clearly and concisely. 3. Redirect with humor.
Casually just disconnect !!! Each person is different... You know where you at with him , try and be honest why you feel the way you do. Let him know that you just need to move on from all this !!! ✈️🛎
You should probably just be honest, You wouldn't want him to feel like "He's being led on or something" People create all kinds of extreme ideas about situations that are relatively more simple than they imagined.