What hurts worse? Leading on or Rejection?
What hurts worse?
Leading on - dating someone for 1 year then suddenly leaving, or, Rejection - person refusing a relationship opportunity and saying I don't like you back
And you are?
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3mo Need a few more votes, pretty please! Most Helpful Girl
I'd say leading on. Cause suddenly someone leaves and the other person is caught by surprise and left on the dust, wondering where it all went.
Like... was it even real or not? Best to be straightforward always. No one likes cowards
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What Girls Said 3
I picked rejection for only one reason: low self esteem, which I know I have. At least with leading on, you know they liked you at SOME point. Rejection is like... it's more of an icky, not worth my time feeling.
Definitely leading on because you thought there was hope, only to find out they were just using you and wasting your time.
I'd rather get rejected right away so it saves me time to find someone else that likes me.
What Guys Said 2
To be led on, cause you get to mentalize yourself that you had a chance, that you two had something.. but then it was all in your head, and just the other person probably being nice to you.
Leading on gives you a chance of learning in this case
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