My friend and I have gotten so close in the last few months, that we are basically a couple. However, I want to actually make this a thing, but I'm not sure he feels the same way
Most Helpful Guy
Don't play games, tricks are for kids.
Not sure about something ask in a mature manner what he thinks after you tell him how you want to make it official. If he doesn't feel the same way you'll know then and there and save both of you time so you both can find others to be with. Otherwise you both can take it to the next level. You both are too young to be committed anyways, experience life. That's not to say you both can't be exclusive but realize that statistically you both haven't even formed your 'true selves' yet and more than likely you will not end up together in the long run, perhaps many years down the road you may, but you will be very different people at that time, inside still hold those values but much wiser to what you want and who you are. So have fun (just don't bring a child into the world) and have fun experiencing dating each other and life. Cheers.0
Most Helpful Girl
It's better to know than to suffer silently and maybe lose him. Some guys are shy and he might the same as you and is too scared to make a move. I say tell him. The worst is he doesn't feel the same and then my only comfort is that if your bond really was that close and good; it won't change. If it does then you two weren't as tight as you thought to begin with.0