I just found out that my exgf broke up with me to be with someone else. When we were still together she met this new person through instagram and gradually gave me the cold bitch treatment and then ended it. Honestly, the dude is better looking and has a lot of money. Did she cheat on me? Is this normal? I mean is it just a part of the dating game? Do I need to worry that my next girlfriend could leave me for someone who's better looking and have more money etc?
Is it considered cheating if you break up with your bf/gf to be with someone else?
What Girls Said 5
Honestly if I was in a relationship and my SO wanted to be with someone else I'd rather they break up with me first then go about their business rather than have then go behind my back and do it. Just because one relationship ended badly doesn't mean the next one will.2
No, its not cheating, but it's an extremely shitty thing to do.1
If broken up before going to the other person then nope unless they did something while together0
Um no? But make sure ur making the right choice and if the grass is REALLY GREENER on the other side buddy.0
What Guys Said 14
SHE LEFT YOU.
It is only cheating if you sleep around while still with someone else.
She didn't cheat on you with him, she left you for him. She was not with you, at all. Your relationship is done. Anything she does now has no bearing on you, at all.2
It may be a wise thing especially if that, "magical spark" is lacking in the original relationship. However, before leaving one for another, consider this...
The same people who are candy to our eyes can be poison to our hearts. Study their ingredients before feeding them to your soul.0
It's not cheating but I think it's pretty shitty behavior. I wouldn't want to be with someone who had a history of leap frogging relationships like that. I mean damn take a break and get your priorities straight to figure out what you want.2
If you're cheating you're going to be loving someone while you're still in your other relationship0
as long as she didn't sleep with him while you two were together, couldnt really call it cheating. but she's definitely a player tough. just try to avoid red flags next time since you have first hand knowledge about this type of girl.0
No I don't think it's cheating but it still sucks. But I think it is relatively "normal" and I am worried about that happening to me too. I'm pretty jaded about humans though.0
You can't cheat without lying about it. Breaking up to be with someone else is not cheating.0
I am not sure, I like to believe it is.0
No, it would be cheating if he/she went with someone else while you were still together.0
It's hypergamy. It's not quite cheating on you, apart from emotionally.0
A real man breaks up before ever considering another women as a potential girlfriend. Like a boss!0
It's called upgrading or trading in.0