I've pondered this question for quite a long time, spawned from observations. I'm curious... Are you okay with your man acting jealous, going through your phone, controlling where you go, who you can talk to etc... Also turn the tables around, and what do you think is appropriate for a woman towards a man.. Do you take the same stance on both sides? Do you have a reason that it should be one way for you and another for your partner? What is the reason behind your preference... if you prefer a jealous man why? If you prefer a man who's not like that why?
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No I am not okay with. If he is jealous, it is very childish because there shouldn't be reason for him to feel jealous. If he feels like he needs to go through your phone, it is trust issues. And that is a major problem. He does not have the right to control where you go or who you talk to In marriage you talk it out about what they like and don't like and respect each other. You have to have respect. You made vows to each other, this is what it means to be married. But outside of it, it simply depends if they reasoning is correct. Like somebody who robs and steals and your caught in the middle, and they tell you no for a reason before it's too late.
Women in general just need to respect his desires if she does love him and honors him, as long as it's right. It should never be about anybody's way if your about being with each other. Both needs to have common ground and practice that. I do not like jealously, it's wrong. It does not represent love, it represents a lot of different things that provoke somebody to anger. This should never be done. Jealously god forbid if taken too far can make somebody feel to do other things the other person will not agree with, or lead to illegal matters or worse.1
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