I've been going out with my girlfriend for the last 6 months and counting and I've been close friends with my female friend for just over two years I tell her everything thing because that's the type of friendship we have with each other. My girlfriend is fully aware of her presence in my life but still wants to be the first person I go to when there's an issue or something wrong with me, personally I'd rather go to my female best friend or someone else because I know the advice I'd get would be much better than her's. I can't be the only one who doesn't see anything wrong with this.
Most Helpful Girl
As long as you make the effort to get closer with your girlfriend then she won't feel excluded.
Its only an issue is she feels unworthy.
Hopefully one day your partner will be your best friend also because a relationship doesn't really last unless you can have that kind of intimacy.
Your girlfriend is young so her feelings are raw and she might not understand why she is feeling jealous or insecure.
But the role of a wife in later life is what your best friend is right now.
Its really good to have female friends as long as your partner is one of them and not just a romantic connection.0
Most Helpful Guy
My best friend is a girl too and we've known each other for a little over four years now. From my experience your best friend will always be there for you so don't ditch them for a relationship! I always went to my best friend first as well because she knows me best and I'm completely fine with being totally open to her.1