My girlfriend of 10 months today basically told me she needs a break from us to sort her head out & decide whether she wants a future with me she claims she doesn't have a massive spark & doesn't know if she loves me her head is really messed up so I agreed on the break & I'm very hurt & confused I love this girl a lot I just can't believe she's keeping me hanging like this does anyone have any advice on how to save this relationship what should I do?
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just for you to see what its like from your gf's perspective, I pretty much had the same problem as her not too long ago. the way I explained it to my boyfriend was that it wasn't that I didn't love him anymore, it was just that I knew how much HE loved ME and I didn't want to be in a relationship that is unfair to him because he has more feelings than I do. he gave me some space but never completely ignored me. eventually he convinced me to stay with him but my doubtful feelings haven't really changed, so let your girlfriend have the time she needs, but still let her know you care and you are there for her. she probably just needs time to figure things out for herself.0