So I've been going out with my girlfriend for like 5 months. For the last one, I've been backpacking, meeting new people on the road , having loads of fun. I trust her and she trusts me, but the thing is that before we started going out she went on about how she didn't really liked monogamy and blablabla. At the time we were just friends. When she got into me, I specifically told her that I dont like open relationships, so if we wanted to date we can't see other people.
Anyway, she seems to have accepted these terms, but it drives me crazy that with me out on the road she doesn't even get a little jealous about me going out with for example a group of 4 girls, all of them really gorgeous. And its like, i dont want her to be a paranoid girlfriend, just to playfully maybe mention watch out with those 4! Or something like that, you know? Never... not once... and I know its all about me and my insecurities but I just can't help to link that to the fact that she said she didn't like monogamy, although she agreed to said kind of relationship and I trust her word.
I dont want to lose her over my own mind games. Thoughts?
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I think you should just be grateful, she trusts you and because her views on monogamy doesn't seem to be matching with yours but accepts your terms she's just not "built" to be quite jealous, don't get me wrong there's a difference between open relationships and cheating so yes she'd be hurt by that but I think she's just okay with knowing you want only her.1