Don't talk as much? So this girl messaged me on Facebook a few weeks ago. We started talking and i asked for her number she gave it to me. She told me that she was moving to the area where I live to start a new job. I asked her if she wanted to grab a drink after work a week ago and she said yes. she would text me more when she didn't live in the area. We met up for drinks after we talk for a few hours we left and when we left she hugged me and she told me to text her when I got home. I went on vacation the day after we met and now I'm back in town. She doesn't start the conversations now and her answers are shorter then before. I thought she may be interested in me but it doesn't really seem like it now. Should I continue talking to her or left it be thoughts?
I had literally the same problem. She didn't start the conversation and her answers were really brief. I ended up asking her what was up, if something was wrong and etc. She couldn't really give me an answer so I ended the thing. Wasn't about to stick around until she made up her mind.
Perhaps when you went Away, you never initiated anything To... Say? And she thought perhaps You had lost Interest? At any rate, all may Not be lost here, dear. Contact her with a Gracious Offer and See where this gets you. All she do is make up a Lame Duck excuse and with this, if She Should, move on. The 'Snapchat last night' may have been her own Helpful Hint to see if you are Now... Johnny on the Hot Spot to ask her to 'Grab some dinner with me.' Good luck. xx
She might have thought that you weren't interested because she didn't hear from you (assuming) in a week. Not sure if you mentioned that you were going on vaca, though I'm sure you did, and she might have thought that wherever you were going you might have had wifi or a way to contact her. Just ask, you got nothing to lose.
That's not a good sign is your always left to initiate conversations now. It sounds like she's lost interest in you. Its shit! Its one sided! Why should you make an effort with people if they aren't willing to do the same with you? That's the trouble with most people, they just take, take and take. This is the reason I no longer take shy guys by the hand, because I'm always the one that has to start conversations with them. Forget about her. Try and find someone willing to put in an equal amount of effort with you.