Well my parents 8 years apart and they have been happily married. My dad was sort of insecure when he was younger dating my mom from my assumptions of what they've told me but not a train wreck by any means. Just a lot of family issues that he had growing up. I don't think it would automatically deem a guy as being insecure but the consideration you need to take in is why. I think a lot of guys will date younger because they are naive and can't see past their bullshit as easily. So if you date older I think it would be in your best interest to keep your eyes peeled within the relationship.
I was 20 dating a 17 year old at one point. People gave me heat for that but I didn't do it out of sinecruity. I did it because I genuinely liked her and we got along perfectly.
I personally think I'll marry younger because i'm more attracted to younger women. I like the age difference because life experience is masculine and I like my partner to look up to me and value my life experience as a man and be someone that she can trust and go to. An older woman that might conflict with that dynamic. Plus it seems that older women that are single tend to be bitter as fuck and an increasingly are becoming cringe feminist lmfao.
when i was 19, i dated a man-child who was 14 years older than me; at that point, i was the only woman he'd dated who was "legal" (like, he dated 14 and 16 year-olds in his early 30s... probably because he had the mentality of a teenager himself).
i mean, sure, most women mature faster than men, but that's ridiculous.
An older man might date a younger woman for many reasons:
1. Wants to feel younger 2. Stronger physical attraction to younger woman 3. Easier to impress 4. Easier to dominate 5. Impress his friends ("trophy" girlfriend) 6. Get revenge on an ex 7. Opportunity to role play incest fantasies 8. Younger woman may be less sexually inhibited 9. Younger woman may be easier to satisfy in non-sexual ways 10. Taboo nature of dating younger woman may make the relationship more exciting
No, not at all. I am in the upper 40's and my girlfriend is 21. The average age of women I have dated is 23, and that hasn't changed since I was 25. I get older, but my dates don't.
I hated my "youth" in regards to dating. I grew up poor and didn't have any money or many dates. Now, I can date a 45 year old divorcee with 3 kids and an ex husband or a 19 year old college student who is thrilled at a boyfriend who not only doesn't expect her to pay for a date, but can show her the world. That is a no-brainer on my part.
Simply biology. Younger women are more sexually attractive compared to women their age. Always been that way. Younger women have perkey breast, capable of producing more children. On the other hand older men are more stable weather financially or emotionally as well. Younger men can be immature and just want sex.
Can be, but doesn't have to. Generally speaking guys of all ages are attracted to youth, health and fertility. Doesn't matter if the guy is 20 or 60, what he finds the most attractive age is around 20-22 years of age.
Its just that most men prefer to have a partner who isn't only attractive, but also mentally and personality-wise compatible. Those men who then date a lot of younger girls do not care about that difference in life-experience enough.
It's more so that those girls are not married, they don't have children to look after, they are physically attractive, they usually have less responsibility and thus are out there to be met and dated...
Not necessarily, maybe they just want to have fun because they were focused, worked hard, and or shy when they were younger but now that they have loosened up find that older women are all trying to get married.
As I get older... my dates just keep on getting younger... I didn't plan it this way... I don't know why... somebody please help me!
Wanting younger women comes with experience with older women. As guys mature they realize that the vag is the most important thing in the bedroom, not boobs or butt. So a younger girl is typically the best choice. As long as that clown hole isn't beat up or like a hot dog down a hallway, I'm good to go.
No. They simply find younger women more attractive. (And I don't blame them).
Hm depends on the individual... i wouldn't think so it'd just point out how old he is more and if he's insecure about his age then I doubt he'd date someone who's significantly younger when eveyone around them is going to point it out