I think it has to do with the persona that guys are the ones that have to be the one who takes the first step towards a relationship, but do you think or are you a girl who would be willing to do the same for a guy you like? After being hurt a few times about girls I have been really close with and not getting to be in a relationship with I just feel like I no longer want to waste any time with a girl unless I know that a relationship can be a sure thing or that she would be interested in approaching me first. I just wonder what both girls and guys think about this topic!
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>> After being hurt a few times about girls I have been really close with and not getting to be in a relationship with I just feel like I no longer want to waste any time [...]
Ask girls out sooner before you even like them that much. Just a little thought like, "Oh, she's pretty, and I might like her if I get to know her more".
Get her to laugh or just be interested in what you have to say in a conversation and then ask her out right then and there. It could be the first day you meet her, no problem. If she says "no", whatever, onto the next girl.
You burn yourself out with just a handful of rejections if you really fall for a girl deeply before you ask them out.
It's easier to build a mutual bond on a date. You set yourself up for the most painful and awkward failure if you develop a very one-sided interest in a girl and then ask her out.1
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