Just the ones that can't stand the idea of being alone. One of my younger friends is doing this right now. She is screwing some random guy whom she doesn't like at all but is practicing different sex techniques with him so she can eventually move on to someone better. She complains to me a lot about how he's a sad excuse for a lover and the poor fool doesn't realize he's being used like a CPR dummy. He might not really care if he knew to be honest.
It's possible, yes. But women will use ANYBODY to get what she wants. It doesn't make it 'safe' if she has to use somebody just to feel safe. At that point it isn't safe. Any relationship can be unsafe. It's how she handles and carry herself.
I think the excuse that a more attractive guy is more likely to cheat or leave is a bad reason to avoid attractive guys and go for less attractive ones. First of all, someone's level of attractiveness has nothing to do with their ability to cheat, and secondly, you can't really control whether someone decides to cheat or leave. You can only control yourself.
I use whoever I fall in love with to havea relationship with. However, if I feel Im falling in love with a guy who isn't available for that kind of relationship (taken, bad reputation, leaving the country soon, any reason whatsoever) I try to keep my distance before it gets too bad. I won't lower my standards ("less desirable") just for safety though, that perfect person for me will come along eventually.
I speak from personal experience. Shy guys tend to sit on the side lines and very few girls pay them any mind. It's only when they're aging and their options are dwindling that they begin to consider them. Sure they may learn to appreciate shy guys once they get to know them and they may even come to realize that shy guys are all around better for them than the outgoing types, but the fact remains that they were being a bit superficial and judgmental and only gave the guy a chance because of circumstance.
I read that your average woman has about five to six guys she rotates around and she uses each of them for a specific purpose in her life. So yeah, women use men for different purposes as they don't really view us as people very much. They always have that backup guy if their primary choice goes bad or leaves them.
Fuck that, I'm not gonna be a second option for a girl.
I don't know tbh but its probably like how my dad used to tell me what girls to get when i was a little boy... Je said get you a ugly girl so you dont have to worry about your friends trying to mess with her. in my opinion i rather have better friends lol
its just like anything else... some do and some dont
Women sleep around until they are late20's/early 30s looking to settle down. It's unfortunate that some girls are hoes in their early years, only to become "good" for marriage and raising a kid. That doesn't sound appealing at all