I met someone and have asked her to get together, so we have made plans. Other day she tells me she went to her doctor and found out she is pregnant.
not mine, never slept together. What I am wondering is, whether other people think it's ok to date a pregnant Woman and if anyone would? I am at least giving the first evening a chance, even if only to get to know her
I don't think it would be 'bad' and if I were a friend of yours I wouldn't judge you for it. If I were you, I would have some questions. In what kind of situation did she get pregnant and am I okay with that? Is the dad out of the picture or might he be trouble? If we date, does she expect me to take care of it? Since Im not ready at all to be a parent.
Ok it is a bit strange but lets look at it logically, would date someone who has children - If yes, same difference - My only concern would be what was relationship with father of child same for pregnant woman, woman with kids - I personally have no problem dating someone with kids.
If I was a dude, I wouldn't. It's less about what people think and more about the complex nature of the situation. If things don't work out, you've gotten attached to an infant you have zero legal rights to. Even if logically she tells you that you don't have to worry about it, time will pass and she'll expect you to help her out when you see that she's struggling. She'll expect you to take on a fatherly role and accept her child as you're accepting her. It will only be natural; all mothers crave for their children to experience a good father. This isn't exactly fair to you though because you didn't make this baby yet you would be putting a lot of time and money into the growth of this child.
If you're OK with dating somebody with kids, it's probably a lot easier in these circumstances when the kid knows you from day 1.
I dated when I was pregnant. It's up to you but babies change things, dramatically.
I wouldn't, basically because I don't want any children, at least not in some years, also her having a baby from another guy can complicate things for you, unless she doesn't know who the father is or isn't willing to tell the father, I don't know, I just see it too complicated, especially if it's someone you don't even know that well
The potential for drama is EXTREMELY HIGH! The potential for her being a needy female is higher than normal. The potential for her wanting to latch on to the first guy who shows an interest is higher. Beware!
So she got pregnant from a one night stand? That's a huge red flag. I would never be with a girl that got pregnant from a one night stand. Also, dating a woman that is pregnant is a big NO for me, especially at my age, it doesn't say anything positive about her, quite the opposite.