Ok so I'm 4'10 (147-8 cm) and I don't feel confident at all. I'm constantly being ridiculed and I can't take this :( Most of the girls in my class are like really tall i mean at least they get noticed. guys don't even look at me when im wearing flats i mean most guys are tall and they'd have to bend down to look me -_- i feel like i'll be liked by any guy. also im pretty curvy (not fat) like I have pretty thick thighs and wide waists and all so im not the 'petite cute' type.
so am I doomed for the rest of my life? please pleaaase be honest.
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly, there's guys out there who think 4 foot 10 is perfect.
No girl is universally liked. No girl is universally hated. The most you can say is that at 4 10, you're probably not going to have your pick and choose between all the males out there. You'll have to accept that. You don't have to pick whatever guy first makes a move on you, but you have to realise not every guy is going to make a move on you.1
Most Helpful Girl
I think they're cute but it's a bit inconvenient if the height difference between two partners is great.
Your height doesn't get you noticed or ignored, your attitude does. I know short, average and tall girls who all get admired and I know (pretty) girls all heights who get ignored too.
It diesn't mean you're ugly, mean or the wrong height if you get ignored, it just means you're making yourself invisible with your attitude.2