Ok so I'm 4'10 (147-8 cm) and I don't feel confident at all. I'm constantly being ridiculed and I can't take this :( Most of the girls in my class are like really tall i mean at least they get noticed. guys don't even look at me when im wearing flats i mean most guys are tall and they'd have to bend down to look me -_- i feel like i'll be liked by any guy. also im pretty curvy (not fat) like I have pretty thick thighs and wide waists and all so im not the 'petite cute' type.
so am I doomed for the rest of my life? please pleaaase be honest.
Honestly, there's guys out there who think 4 foot 10 is perfect. No girl is universally liked. No girl is universally hated. The most you can say is that at 4 10, you're probably not going to have your pick and choose between all the males out there. You'll have to accept that. You don't have to pick whatever guy first makes a move on you, but you have to realise not every guy is going to make a move on you.
I think they're cute but it's a bit inconvenient if the height difference between two partners is great.
Your height doesn't get you noticed or ignored, your attitude does. I know short, average and tall girls who all get admired and I know (pretty) girls all heights who get ignored too. It diesn't mean you're ugly, mean or the wrong height if you get ignored, it just means you're making yourself invisible with your attitude.
I had this discussion with a couple of people on this site the other day. I'm used to messing around with girls who are taller around my height and stronger/athletic. I really like rough sex and I think it would be really hot to sleep with a girl that is on the shorter side. It would be almost animalistic and hot. Someone brought up an issue though. I have very rough sex.. I'm very powerful in comparison to your average guy. I would constantly have to hold myself back so I don't hurt her. It seems like it would get annoying over a period of time. I couldn't imagine 4"10 tbh lol. I legitimately feel like I would severely bruise her cervix or fracture her pelvis overtime. That being said I still think it would be extremely hot in a way.
i noticed most of them are more fun. I always thought they wouldn't talk that much because they have to look up xD When I come to a new group I try to talk to everyone the same if they don't block or look scary.
That's fine , at least being a girl its okay to be short imagine if you were a short man?
You will get guys later on but just not in school because most girls are taller than that, if you were slim and looked petite then more guys would look
I find most guys just don't want a girl to be taller than them which actually gives you an advantage. I'm a bit taller and guys who are 5"5 and under never hit on me. You are literally the shorter guys dream lol. I assume you are in high school but when you graduate I'm sure things will change for you. I know a lot of guys that dig shorter girls.
What are u talking about? Short girls have it way easier. I'm 5'9 and half the guys in my class are shorter than me... When I wear heels I'm 6'0. I think you're really lucky. You can wear heels and cute shoes and still be shorter than almost all guys.