Met a guy. First date i hated him w a passion. He talked non stop asked no questions and smacked me on the bum. But i figured maybe he was nervous. He seemed nervous so i gave him a second chance. Date 2. We had dinner and drinks. He was funny and entertaining. Went back to his place and made out. Nothing more than kissing. I was wearing heels and he made me wear his shoes home. I tried to give them back but he said i had to keep them so i would see him again. So he texts me. I always respond. He asked when i was free again. I tell him a day before i vaca for a week and he says he's leaving town that day for fun. Ok... He never suggests another day. So he keeps texting and i keep texting back. Just back and forth. Sometimes im flirty sometimes i ask seroous questions. Yada yada. But i never text him first. Just responding, because id like to see him again. Today i ask a question about something he texts and he says i am so negative. I just didn't understand and asked "do you mean this or something else?" i just wanted clarification so i could understand him. He tells me he can't stand all the texting (i haven't texted once unsolicited) and wants to talk. I say i prefer face to face too and he should just ask me out with a date and time. He picks the one day im on a plane elsewhere. He seems almost angry and disinterested. I was dissapointed. I told him i was free this day, this one and another few in the future. He said something about acquiring several companies, being busy and not being able to committ to a date. I'm so confused. I left it at "well you know my sched now. If you give me notice it would be fun to set something up." The end. I don't plan on texting again. But wjy do i feel confused? Did i do something? Please advise...
When guys are total hypocrites? Did I do something?
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You won't die or world won't turn if you text him first to show that you are a little interested.
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