With every single girl i have ever date but just 1 i have always paid for 100% of our dates. Girl 1. Find someone new after her parents forced us apart and said i was going no where in life. Girl 2. Cheated on me with a 59 year old man. girlfriend 3. We take turns paying the bill or she will buy me breakfast and if i say no she says to stfu and accepted it. I love the fact she has her own and pushes me to do better just like girlfriend one. I dont personal mind 100% paying for the bill but its nice Change you known? plus it shows me she just doesn't expected to live off me.
I don't really care who pays. Truth be told, I actually don't like it when he pays for me (unless it's an anniversary/my birthday-type thing). If we both have similar incomes+similar expenses, there's no reason why either of us should treat the other on the regular, y'know?
No, I don't mind at all. It's fine. But I have noticed that most guys feel they have to pay for me when I'm on a hetero date. I don't know if they think they're gonna get something out of it, but they usually won't let me.
It's not that I mind at all but in my own personal experience if a guy has ever let me pay for my own it has been because he was not very interested. I'm from a place that is probably more traditional though.
While dating- he pays for first date I pay for the second. While in a relationship- doesn't matter, just whoever has cash on them at the time, whoever pulls out the cash, or whoever is giving the other a treat pays.
I've made up my mind that a girl who has a problem with being fair is not worth dating.
This isn't even a negotiation. If she insists that I'm supposed to pay because that's what men have to do, she can fuck off. That said, I'll offer to pay because I feel good about it. She should also feel good about it. We should fight over who pays.