I have a boyfriend who I have been friends with for 1yr and 2 years of dating and because we are so busy I don't get to see him much. I have caught him looking at videos of girls which makes me feel uncomfortable and he knows it but he still does it. He says it's normal but then why look at other girls if he has me? He says he is curious but I mean it's not like he is a kid he is in his late 20s. Should I break up with him? Or work things out?
Most Helpful Guy
Number of questions (1) It is okay to look at other women, it does not lessen his attraction for you BUT (2) If you are uncomfortable and ask him to stop to which he says no point blank, that is a red flag.
Talk about it and then come to a decision.1
Most Helpful Girl
It's natural for people to find other people attractive , even if they are in love , but if something makes you feel uncomfortable then he should respect that.
I guess you have to decide whether his behaviour is a deal breaker or not.