Its my first birthday with him and he's going to a bachelors instead
Most Helpful Guy
i think so. a bachelor party and subsequent wedding hopefully only occur once in a person's life. he can celebrate your birthday on another day. he can't celibrate a person's bachelor party on another day2
Most Helpful Girl
That is actually a very tricky thing for the both of you. Is the friend like REALLY close to him?
If yes, then it explains his decision a little.
He could have also made time for the both of you, like divide his day.
If he didn't maybe he will make it up to you later if he absolutely couldn't ditch his friend's bachelor's.
ALSO, he may not be all that into celebrating birthdays.