Hate me for what I'm about to say, but I'm at the point where I had enough of this crap and may let my emotions take control and just poor my opinion in most un-sugar coated and raw way possible, so here it goes.
It always amazes me how many woman say they aren't judgmental, how they are simple and simply looking for a caring and loving guy to be there partner in a relationship. However not a single time has anyone ever said that what they want is loads of crap, there are strings attached to this sugar coated and twisted lie of being "open", "friendly", "loving and caring". I can't count how many times I just thrown in the towel and said fuck it.
Are women this days looking for a relationship or to satisfy their materialistic needs? Woman requirements are fucking stupid this days.
- Has a well paid job (meanwhile herself doesn't work or works for minimum wage)
- Has a "nice" or "good looking car. (meanwhile herself takes the subway or the bus, and by nice means BMW/Benz)
- Has his own place (meanwhile lives with mommy and daddy)
- Must have graduated (meanwhile graduated a stupid & useless program or dropped out)
Don't get me wrong there are good women out there, but I often meat with this retarded crap. Real women who are not materialistic will don't mind what car there boyfriend drives even if it's and old and beat up car with loads of rust on it. They will not go on about him living with his parents, they will love their boyfriend for what he is, not for what he has.
You know what I'm sorry, I'm a fucking loner who drives a fucking small car and a motorcycle, I frankly don't give a fuck what I drive as both of this things are methods of transportation and nothing more. I'm not funny but mature and loyal person with maybe bit too much logic, yet in the end of the fucking day none of this shit matters. What matters is the little annoying fact "what I fucking have". It fucking amazes me that this days the relationships are materialistic, fuck this society.
Most Helpful Girl
Don't be so mean to yourself. Yes, there are many woman in our modern day world who approach the dating world as if a man's value lies in his wallet and not his heart. Pity them because they're willingly embracing a shallow, limited life of conditional love. Pity the men they choose because they are only loved, adored, and cherished so long as they meet specific conditions. Shall life become cold and they lose their job or get a medical condition that makes them gain weight, she'll be gone and on to the next trophy man.
All you can control is your happiness and how much you love yourself. The rest will fall into place :) Be grateful for each and every single thing you have. Appreciate yourself and your life because there are some people out there who don't even have a grain of rice. They don't even have a bike let alone a "small fucking car". Even if they wanted to experience the joyful thrill of a motorcycle, they're visually impaired or amputee victims who can't. Don't be so busy craving what others appear to have that you become totally ungrateful for your own blessings.0
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, are you completely fucking broke? If you're not you can always just pay a good looking escort and just get laid and be done with those urges or something. Just let it go man, it happens to other people to, no point of always playing that you're the victim here or the only victim here, because you aren't. You ain't the only loner chronically single person on the planet that is still miserable about it or whatnot. There are plenty, and I'm serious that there are plenty of people that are chronically single, and many have already said fuck it and given up long time ago on relationships, dating, sex, blah blah.
I know because I've been single for more than 30 years myself. Forget what the age says in my profile here, as that isn't my age in real life.
The material world is indeed a big fucking lie, I can't agree more with the all relationships have become much more materialistic nowadays.
But you know what, forget about it. You can always go your own way, and do your own thing. Relationships, if they ever happen they happen and if they don't it wouldn't really have mattered either way since they're not exactly guaranteed to ever last forever in the first place.0
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