Hate me for what I'm about to say, but I'm at the point where I had enough of this crap and may let my emotions take control and just poor my opinion in most un-sugar coated and raw way possible, so here it goes.
It always amazes me how many woman say they aren't judgmental, how they are simple and simply looking for a caring and loving guy to be there partner in a relationship. However not a single time has anyone ever said that what they want is loads of crap, there are strings attached to this sugar coated and twisted lie of being "open", "friendly", "loving and caring". I can't count how many times I just thrown in the towel and said fuck it.
Are women this days looking for a relationship or to satisfy their materialistic needs? Woman requirements are fucking stupid this days.
- Has a well paid job (meanwhile herself doesn't work or works for minimum wage) - Has a "nice" or "good looking car. (meanwhile herself takes the subway or the bus, and by nice means BMW/Benz) - Has his own place (meanwhile lives with mommy and daddy) - Must have graduated (meanwhile graduated a stupid & useless program or dropped out)
Don't get me wrong there are good women out there, but I often meat with this retarded crap. Real women who are not materialistic will don't mind what car there boyfriend drives even if it's and old and beat up car with loads of rust on it. They will not go on about him living with his parents, they will love their boyfriend for what he is, not for what he has.
You know what I'm sorry, I'm a fucking loner who drives a fucking small car and a motorcycle, I frankly don't give a fuck what I drive as both of this things are methods of transportation and nothing more. I'm not funny but mature and loyal person with maybe bit too much logic, yet in the end of the fucking day none of this shit matters. What matters is the little annoying fact "what I fucking have". It fucking amazes me that this days the relationships are materialistic, fuck this society.
Don't be so mean to yourself. Yes, there are many woman in our modern day world who approach the dating world as if a man's value lies in his wallet and not his heart. Pity them because they're willingly embracing a shallow, limited life of conditional love. Pity the men they choose because they are only loved, adored, and cherished so long as they meet specific conditions. Shall life become cold and they lose their job or get a medical condition that makes them gain weight, she'll be gone and on to the next trophy man.
All you can control is your happiness and how much you love yourself. The rest will fall into place :) Be grateful for each and every single thing you have. Appreciate yourself and your life because there are some people out there who don't even have a grain of rice. They don't even have a bike let alone a "small fucking car". Even if they wanted to experience the joyful thrill of a motorcycle, they're visually impaired or amputee victims who can't. Don't be so busy craving what others appear to have that you become totally ungrateful for your own blessings.
Dude, are you completely fucking broke? If you're not you can always just pay a good looking escort and just get laid and be done with those urges or something. Just let it go man, it happens to other people to, no point of always playing that you're the victim here or the only victim here, because you aren't. You ain't the only loner chronically single person on the planet that is still miserable about it or whatnot. There are plenty, and I'm serious that there are plenty of people that are chronically single, and many have already said fuck it and given up long time ago on relationships, dating, sex, blah blah.
I know because I've been single for more than 30 years myself. Forget what the age says in my profile here, as that isn't my age in real life.
The material world is indeed a big fucking lie, I can't agree more with the all relationships have become much more materialistic nowadays.
But you know what, forget about it. You can always go your own way, and do your own thing. Relationships, if they ever happen they happen and if they don't it wouldn't really have mattered either way since they're not exactly guaranteed to ever last forever in the first place.
Why bother by all women? All you need is the one that will like you the way you are, end of story. We are all individual human beings, thereare all sorts of girls out there. Don't generalize the whole gender based on your experience with smaller portion of all women.
Sounds like the right time to take a hiatus from dating 😋. I know what I'm bringing to the table so I want someone who can complement that. I don't really care how other people see my preferences- I just need one person to make it work lol. From what you wrote, it seems like you're just going for the wrong type of person.
I can only conclude that men such as yourself are attracted to a certain type of woman and that woman is a shallow, materialistic butthole. There a thousands of men with equally shitty ideas about what women should do/have/achieve. There are shitty humans everywhere, thankfully I'm not generally attracted to men who value those things.
I'd seriously look at what is attracting you to these women in the first place. I've never had much trouble being able to spot a twat but it seems you are.
All I can say is take a step back from dating, and figure out what your doing wrong with how you pick a woman to date, or find attractive. Because what your saying is understandable, but those kinds of women are everywhere no matter what you do.
It sounds like you've been hanging out with the wrong women. I know tons of women who have dated non-rich, non-educated dudes. I will say that, as a woman who has her own job that pays a lot more than minimum wage, and has her own vehicle AND who has a degree, that I do want someone who is also hardworking and motivated as well. As for the women who look for material things and not for your personality, then you shouldn't be with that girl in the first place. Those women are incredibly immature and lazy.
Jenna marbles made an interesting video about this. Girls like people but the reason they get friend zoned is because there is something about them that is a red flag. As she put it "they are trying to crush it into the stands but can't even get into the dug out" I learned that as a teen.
But on today's dating scene, it is fucked, it's two people scared to get feelings treating things like sex as a mistake, dates as "they are just nice" so they try to out asshole each other and the one who cares the least controls everything. It sucks but you gotta learn to play the game, I'm noticing that with girls, I'm not a total asshole but I may do something like bang them then go home vs stay the night and they actually want me more? lol