Most Helpful Guy
Maybe you give off a "Don't approach me" vibe?1
Most Helpful Girl
You sound cute. The word 'bothers' is something I associate a child using when a guy is bugging her.
I use it a lot.
lol anyways, hmm what I fear is with that kind of perspective, you might come off too strong to some guy as in, "GIVE ME A DATE," so don't take on that approach.
If you meet someone you like, then let things work it's course. OR, alternatively, if you want to date someone, tell that person you want to be their friend and see their responsiveness.