So I just started dating a new guy (literally only one date and talking a lot)
and we were texting and I asked out of curiosity how long he's been single and he said, "About a month actually I hope that's not too scary for you..."
so I asked was he over her so soon and did anything shady happen and he said, "Nothing shady from either side. It was actually pretty mutual and it honestly was kind of over for awhile before it officially ended. We were just fighting a lot and neither of us were happy anymore. It got pretty ugly at the end so I'm definitely over her and there won't be any reconciliation or feelings towards her I promise."
is this a red flag or no big deal?
He's 29 and I'm 23 if that matters at all.
Most Helpful Guy
Better than him still dating her.0
Most Helpful Girl
I totally understand and it would make me nervous too. But since he said that the two were over for awhile before it ended that is totally reasonable and I would be comfortable with that. Also a good thing that it was not a fight and was mutual because if it was a big fight that ended it, people will stop being angry and want to get back together and will hook up with others out of spite, but that is also not the situation here. Basically, he said EXACTLY the right things and I would be totally comfortable with it. He also knew it would be a concern of yours which is also a very good thing. Don't worry about it, he sounds pretty decent.0