Why is dating today screwed?

It seems like today dating is two people who are scared to catch feelings and they just end up out trying to be the bigger asshole and the one who cares the least controls everything. Social media plays into this, today you can keep tabs on almost everyone and now which can make moving on harder. Anyone else's thoughts on this?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Dating today is screwed because most people go into it with all the wrong motivations. You'll see a lot of people who date because they are motivated by sex, selfishness, self-absorption, game playing, narcissism, low self-esteem, incompleteness within ones life and/or self. They're motivated by an illogical, unrealistic to heal pain with a human being who can not and will not ever be able to fix them; you have to fix yourself. A lot of people idolize their beauty, their muscles, their careers, and anything surface level that does not truly get to the core of who they are and uproot all that is negative, toxic, and limiting. So then they get into these relationships and they can't even function in a healthy, progressive way.

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    • Many modern day guys will spend hours perfecting his physique on a daily basis but won't spend half that time getting real with himself and fixing whatever the fuck is broken on the inside. Many modern day women will spend hours learning how to do perfect make-up or perfecting the art of styling her hair then wait around for a guy to come around and help her learn how to fix who she is inside. It's like people are too lazy to really do the internal plowing necessary in order to truly have a certain type of dating experience or they're too afraid to keep it real with themselves and be honest about why things can't seem to unfold the way they should.

Most Helpful Guy

  • cause women are sizes and men are dicks

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What Girls Said 1

  • Nailed it 👍🏻

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What Guys Said 2

  • AYYYYYYYY lmao

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  • I blame feminists

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