I have noticed that I always have to make the first move when I am interested in a guy and a lot of guys that I am interested never makes the first move to ask me out when they seem to like me. Why is that? Is it ok for me to make the first move or should the guy make the first move? How can I let the guy know that I'm interested in him and want to date him without being too pushy?
It's better to be your own person than changing your ways only to be conventional. It's okay to make the first move if you truly like that person. You aren't pushy if you ask him out, in fact, any guy would find that flattering!
If it's you that has the crush, then you should probably make the first move rather than waiting on your crushes to do that for you. If you don't really know these guys that well. Take the time to talk to them and get to know them better, before you go diving in and asking them out. No point in doing that if they are already in relationships. Its the other way around for me, some guys like me but never seem to be able to act on it.
There's nothing wrong with you making the first move and good for you for doing it. Guys honestly are getting sick of being rejected and/or played so a lot of us just simply aren't bothering to ask anymore, regardless how much we may like you. We guys for the most part are always expected to make the first move with a lot of women and take the rejection and all the feelings that go with it. We have all the same thoughts/feelings as you women, but we're expected to suck it up?
Look girls play a lot of games and a lot of them dont evne let you know they like you how do you expect a guy to approach you if he doesn't know? iam not gonna do it simply put.
Not to mention i have countless women showing interest in me and giving me their numbers or fb or whatever and then they start drifting away, and when i get bored and move on they start getting excited about talking to me and being around me again, needless to say it doesn't work iam sorry but i have way too much dignity to waste it like that on such girls.
also maybe he doesn't find you hot i dont find some girls hot even though i know they like me and want to date me, physical attraction is important for me as much as personality, and your crush is probably hot which means he got options so you gotta stand out somehow.
Guys are not going to make the first move when you got feminists promoting rape culture, misandry and bad behaviour. Soon the average woman is going to find it difficult to find a partner or even a date especially in her 30s when majority of men are going MGTOW.
im in exactly the same position, i want this girl to make a move. there have been enough signs from her. its one of those situations where if she does make a move i. e adding me on social media, ill take it from there.
I remember a girl who I later found out had a crush on me I would have gone out with her as well and she could have been a good match but didn't know she was interested till it was too late and I was going to be moving away plus I was also a shy person when it comes to that sort of thing.
if everyone thought asking someone out is being potion one would get asked out. you want him to ask you out, so you clearly dont think its pushy in general to ask someone out, only if its you? why is that?