Hello. I don't understand why this is, but for some reason, I'll meet these guys and they'll seem okay at first, but then out of nowhere they start acting needy. I kid you not. One told me that he thought that I was an excellent match for him because the fact that I served showed that I can take care of myself and so can take care of him in the ways that he needed to be taken care of (he didn't not tell me what any of these "ways" were). Another one sent me at least four or five text messages a day trying to push romance on me and then demanding to know why I wasn't responding (he did this until I told him to stop), and the most recent one I had only been talking to for two days and he already asked me if he has everything I look for in a man.
Thing about me is that right now, I go to school and work part time. I'm not looking for any man to take care of me, but I want the kind of relationship that involves both of us taking care of each other. However, the men that I am interested in seem to gravitate towards the whiney little princesses for some reason and I always seem to attract the men who only want me to take care of them.
Regardless of my picture, I try to act like a feminine woman. I put on make up, perfume and high heels and I love to shop (even though I don't make a lot of money), I cook, clean and love to do crafting (jewelry making is one of my favorite hobbies). I have my own life and I have girlfriends, but these men seem to want my attention constantly and heaven forbid I don't give it to them or I choose my girlfriends over them and I'm cussed out and accused of not making time for them. Is there anything that I need to do in order to not attract these men?
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It's bad luck. Just gotta avoid those guys1