So me and this girl have been chatting and it's got really flirty and sex orientated. We've talked a lot about it and I think it will happen. She mentioned it's been a while. Which made me nervous because I got the impression she thought I was experienced. Anyway so I told her, it would be like my first time,, I'm as good as a virgin, but I didn't tell her that, I said im not experienced and it would be like my first time and I'd be rubbish.
she's now gone quiet, it's been over a day :/
should I have told her? I wanted to be honest with her
Most Helpful Girl
Well don't say "This is practically my first time. I suck." -_- There's nothing wrong with being sexually inexperienced because some people who are sexually experienced still suck and listening to a college lecture is more thrilling than being underneath them. If you're a bad learner who only focuses on yourself then you probably give sucky sex.
Next time, just jump right into the experience with confidence, passion, and whatever knowledge/tips/tricks/skills you have! There's nothing wrong with being inexperienced but you can't share that with every female because some females are selfish lovers who kinda view guys as a talking dildo with a heartbeat; they just want your convo and orgasms. That's it. So those girls will get turned off by the idea of a guy who's not just going to come prepared to dick her down good.1
Most Helpful Guy
you did good by being honest. if its not meant to be then it won't, so dont worry0