I got out of a long term relationship over 2 years ago. It was extremely toxic and made me really bitter and bias towards love. During the time I was single I learned to love myself again and find my happiness. Fast coward to now... A few months back I meet a guy who I thought was amazing. We had so much in common, on paper he was exactly what I wanted. I fell for him something I thought I'd never do again especially after the number my ex did on me. We talked every day, I spent time at him home... Then we played a romantic mini getaway, everything went perfect. We slept together and everything seemed to be great. He even changed his relationship status tagged me, put up photos of us. When we got back the next morning he called me like he did every morning said he loved me. Then a few hours later I realize he blocked me on everything. When I called to ask him what happened it went straight to voicemail yet when my friend called it rang for her. I still never got an explanation and I'm really confused why he did that.
Most Helpful Guy
He never loved you he was just using you for sex. The whole I love you and the social media was just temporary so you would feel that he was serious and have sex with him. The whole "youre too beautiful for me" was a lie, it isn't how he really feels, he just thinks that would be a good way to manipulate you, as you seem like a nurturing person. There are guys out there who feel like that, but he just lied to get you to have sex. He is a doucebag! Guys like that give the rest of us a bad name.
If he ever contacts you again ignore him, he WILL do it to you all over again!1
Most Helpful Girl
I feel the same way you do, I only attract assholes, and yeah everything might seem perfect at the beginning but then they turn into the most horrible people, I'm sorry this happened to you, the worse thing is when they just disappear and you don't know why they just walked away, and for me at least, it's harder to move on1