What makes a guy decide he wants to spend the day with his girlfriend as opposed to his best guy friend? other then the sexual benefits, I obviously understand that. For me, I understand what makes me want to spend the day with my boyfriend, but I have trouble understanding what would make him want to hang out with me, instead of his best friend. so I can't help but think he's telling me a white lie just to avoid me getting mad at him for choosing his best friend over me.
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guys and girls aren't always THAT different . . . I bet the reasons he wants to spend the day with you are similar to the reasons you like spending time with him . . . sounds like you're not giving yourself enough credit! ;)
hopefully people want to be in a relationship with someone they ENJOY. it's comforting to spend time with someone that likes you and you have fun with. It there's a really connection it's just a nice thing. I enjoy spending time with my girlfriend because she's funny, smart, creative, makes me think, is interesting . . . because I love her and love finding out more about her and because there's a connection and an energy between us.6