25 year old partier: Goes out to party each night. Parties such as birthdays, kick backs, etc. Very sociable, knows a lot of people. Works an okay job but its not a career ( Restaurant, Food Preparer) . Didn't finish school/stopped going. Funny and a charming. Lives with his parents. He makes you feel young and happy.
25 year old boring: Goes out but stays home majority of the time. Works a nice job. Finished school. He's great to talk to but there's not really a lot of excitement. Has feeling of content with him. Has his own place. He makes you feel happy but you miss the excitement.
Which do you choose?
Guys as well. Just replace with your own preference in gender.
As marrying is about balance and learning to live and thrive in a lifestyle that demands plateau. Boring girl all day. A ring doesn't curb extroverted tendencies. If your used to a level of stimulation that high for so long, the chances of that stopping at 25 are astronomical. These are her prime years to party, while finding or building a career. There is not a hint of stability there. The chick who stays home and does her thing, can find solace in a routine lifestyle. Not to be confused with mundane. Not to mention women who are home bodies tend to have more secure interest. Women who party a lot are looking for a temporary source of attention and excitement. Red flags for any long term relationship. Male or female.
Neither... I prefer someone who is fun to be around and likes to go out and socialize sometimes but who is cool with staying in a lot of the time. I don't want someone who wants to party all the time, I much prefer chilling out with some friends and having a couple beers around a campfire than a big crazy party, but I do like tying one on once in a while.
Still has to party at 25 every night is concerning at 25 you should be over that shit or close to it. He won't change and any relationship will suck. If a girl will stick with him and get married and have kids she'd end up doing all the work whIle he's at the bars on the weekend. Just seen this shit way too many times. Definitely boring guy
I'd choose the boring guy solely because he lives alone and has a sense of how to be financially stable. But If you were to say a party guy who can have some down time, lives alone and works a job he enjoys i'd pick that LOL.