My boyfriend of 5 months is upset about this. Apparently he found an old message about the other guy (Mark) inviting me out on a date and we making out.
That was the last time Mark and I contacted each other. That was the day before I started dating my boyfriend. I was still not his girlfriend at that moment. But he still feels cheated on because he didn't know I was testing my options.
- No, you weren't his girlfriend at that moment so it's not cheating67%(10)67%(18)Vote67%(8)
- Yes, though you weren't dating at that moment, it's still cheating33%(5)33%(9)Vote33%(4)
Most Helpful Guy
You weren't cheating, at that moment u were single.
Your boyfriend is just caught up in his emotions.1
Most Helpful Girl
Depends on whether you fucked the other guy or gave him sexual favors. If you did so with that guy, but not with your current boyfriend BEFORE you became official... it's slutty but not cheating. If you were hooking up with those two guys at once, official or not, I would consider that cheating. That's not okay0