Everyone knows girls date up on most stuff. Age, money, etc. But it seems girls will only date guys more attractive than them. Average looking girls don't want average looking guys...they want hot guys.
Anyone else notice this?
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Exactly, and here's why:
- The media overvalues the prized thing women possess- power over sex. Naturally, men can try and seduce women just like women try to seduce men, but it takes a higher level of confidence, flirtation, banter, etc than the average woman. Most women can get away with being complete bitches and still get laid, while if a dude was a complete jackass and met a random girl, his chances would be slim to none (varying with the woman of course).
Naturally, the way I suggest people approach that type of situation, is to put more value to yourself than physical appearance. Obviously if you're the 150 lb 6'2 athletic type of guy with a reasonable face (I just described myself)... Then you wouldn't stand a chance when competing in looks against someone that is 200lbs 6'2 with a face that is nothing short of attractive... So instead of competing and playing those games, bring out your personality and confidence. Flirt with her while teasing her, show her that you hold more value than just a rockin body. Then when she finds an interest in you, you can be the judge of whether or not you want to date her, while she expresses her values to you.