Years can go by or have gone by and there's still that person you think of...
The one that got away?
An old flame?
Time heals all and you can get over anyone
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Most Helpful Guy
"Time heals all wounds" is horseshit. That's like getting into an accident, becoming a quadriplegic and having you limbs amputated and then someone meets you and says "Walk it off! Get back in the saddle! You'll be on Dancing With The Stars next year!"
Sometimes parts of the soul get amputated too.13
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Most Helpful Girl
I used to have a friend who I had a crush on and was really upset when we stopped talking and would think of him pretty much everyday but then after a year or two I didn't really think of him anymore and still don't. It's rare I do really.
I also have another guy friend I still contact now and again and used to have a very slight crush on but not enough to go out with him. I used to look up to him a lot (and still do) and would miss him greatly but now I don't really get that so much anymore, although I do still think he's cool, that crush isn't really there anymore and I don't think of him anywhere near as much.
My ex bf's? No, don't really think of them much either. Don't miss them. Don't want them back.
I have doubts now and again about my current boyfriend and was thinking of it this morning but realised I didn't want to break up because I still really like him and this COULD be fixed if he just puts some more effort into the relationship. I feel like if I let him go now I will regret it and still like him. If we did break up, I could be wrong but I'm not sure if my feelings for him will ever completely go - Though I didn't admit it to myself at the time since the age gap just seemed wrong, I liked him since the first time I ever saw him when he was 12 and I was 14. I didn't admit it to myself at the time since 12 and 14 year old together just seemed wrong but I'd be lying if I denied finding him attractive even back then.
I liked him then, I liked him when he was 13 and I was 15, when he was 14 and I was 16, I liked him even more when we became best friends last year and I realised how sweet he was when he was 16 and I was 18 and I still like him now he's 17 (18 next month) and I'm 19.
I don't know if I will ever stop liking him completely. I could be wrong, I don't know.. But even when I am having doubts and when he annoys me I still like him and don't want to break up, I want to work things out.
I don't want no one else right now.0