what's the point of a date?🤔 I thought the point of a date was to get to know eachother more on a deeper level, weather or not that level is intimate or not is completely up to you!😌😊
lets do a scenario, lets someone suddenly becomes attracted to you, let's also say you're not attracted to this person intimately but they are a really nice and sweet and understanding, would you lie or deny them if they asked to spend time with you onFriday night or Saturday? And my question is... Why say no? What's there to lose? There's no law that says you have to have sex or kiss or any other kind of intimate/sexual behavior. Would you say no cuz you just don't like their face?🤔 So are you the type of person that will say no to going on a date with the other person because they're not a male/femfle model or somthing?😒
Food for thought
I'd go on a date with someone not so attractive, it's just a date, no big deal
I did that sometimes by accident because I asked the girl out when I was really drunk and she seemed attractive to me then.
Then I met them on the date days after when sober and sometimes I'm like, "Wow, what was I thinking?" Anyway, no big deal, date can still be fun.
>> Why say no? What's there to lose?
Money and time that could be spent towards a girl I'm actually sexually attracted towards. Plus I don't want to inadvertently hurt the girl by agreeing to date her and there make her feel like she was strung along.
If I know in advance she's not attractive to me, I'm gonna say "no" for both my sake and hers.
If I find myself in such a situation by accident, not such a big deal. I just make the date really friendly and focus on fun without intimacy or passion.
I just can't really get attracted to someone if i didn't feel it at first glance. and i am not talking about looks or physical attraction by saying first glance. But i am not scared to date either. I spend time with them to get to know them and let them know they are my friends rather than simply rejecting them. Gaining a friend is hard losing one is easy.
The only thing that happens to me if i date (not date but lets say spend time to get to know) someone i am unattracted to or someone i spend time with, i just get to know the person more and feel more friendly. And if i feel that friendly feeling they are generally my bros and i can't have incest. Lol.