Found out that my girlfriend wishes she could kiss a guy she got with before we were together. Do it bring it up or let it go?
Most Helpful Girl
I'm going to take the opposite side from everyone else on this whole page, and suggest that you (at least for now) keep yr mouth shut and NOT say anything to her about it.
Right now, her friend is willing to "monitor" her for you -- to some extent, at least -- and is also at least somewhat willing to share brutally honest things that lots of girlfriends would cover up or hide.
In other words, right now you've got valuable inside information. You've got a secret agent, so to speak. If you bring this up, you'll fuck that up -- and you might even drive a wedge between her and her friend -- and you'll be left with pretty much total uncertainty.
So, yeah. Keep yr mouth shut for now.
If anything, do this instead:
Talk to her about a hypothetical "friend" of yours. This friend's girlfriend got a little drunk, and let it slip that she reeeaallly wanted to fuck [some other guy].
Then pay VERY close attention to how she reacts.
This is the perfect way to approach the situation, because there's nothing she can sling back at you in response (since you're not actually accusing her of anything -- it's yr friend, remember)... and yet you can still see what her instant reaction is.1
Most Helpful Guy
I would break up with her, if I were you. Now that the cat is out of the bag, it's more likely that she'll actually do it. She'll have less holding her back.1