Okay so this is a little bit of drama but I think I'm being guilt tripped here.
I saw this cute girl at a restaurant I go too often. I noticed her looking at me in line so I went up to her and introduced myself. I ask for her name and asked her if she wanted to hang sometime. She said sure and offered me her number.
I felt really good about it because girls like these don't usually talk to me (she's the rich, tight body, petite type, smart too) and I text her like 4 days later.
I go to pick her up and her dad answers the door. We kick the chit until she comes down and she is looking so much better than me.
At this moment I could tell she was really excited to go out because her face is bright red and she can barely say any words. She says bye to her pops and I promise him I'll bring her home safe and he replies "it'd be better if you kept her" (lol what a cheeky cunt) she gives him the dirtiest look and we go on our way.
Everything at this point is chill. Conversation was flowing and I was sure I was going to get laid. We get to the bar and my friend was already there waiting for us and we get our drinks. Now the rest of the night was good, most of the talk was casual, not much of getting to know each other. We made out a few times and she ended up inviting me back to her place. We go back and some out of state relative is sleeping in her room so we fuck in her car. I was just like I've done that before w/e.
Now she's acting all crazy because I won't answer her calls. Even though I never said I wanted anything and we fucked like it was a one night stand.
Here are the messages
I know I'm not wrong here I never led her on. I thought it was clear we were just hooking up but she doesn't seem to get it. I have like 12 missed calls a day from her. Am I a bad guy?
Cliffs Op meets girl and ask her out Op takes girl out fucks her in car She text and calls non stop even though OP is not interested
She seems to be too clingy and probably even If you had a relationship It would be destined to be ended soon. When I read that story I also thought that It was kind of one night stand. I don't think that you are guilty in this case, she got what she wanted and you got what you wanted. If she wanted more that's her problem. Just if you guess that the girl is that clingy tell her what you want from the very start so that you won't have problems like that.
When you asked her what she wanted out of it, what did she say? Because she's acting like it was a big deal to her for "giving herself to you". doesn't sound like a girl looking to just hook up in my opinion.
I mean... You should've told you specifically that you weren't looking for a relationship or anything. It seems like you didn't explain to her that. I feel her. Shit like that has happened to me because a guy didn't feel the need to explain that he wasn't looking for a relationship before we hooked up, and only actually told me afterwards. I get her for being mad, but she should stop texting you and calling you. It's her fault for getting with you in the first place. If she keeps contacting you I recommend blocking her number, unless you're looking for something else.
But the thing is she doesn't know how you were thinking in your mind. No one knows you well but only yourself. So she is the same. She doesn't know. If you didn't tell her what are you looking for in advance, how would she make any assumption? Anything is possible, maybe she constantly looking for a relationship and you were like prince charming to her asking her out in the restaurant. Like a dream for most girls. I get that you are frustrated, so she is too. You have no way to handle it, the only way is to cut off contact, she should stop calling after awhile.. dont ever answer her calls if you are not interested at all. Or simply block her. Let it cool off... good luck.
Ok, its not that you're the prick or that she was clingy. Its how you handled her afterwards that was kind of... rude. I think you could have told her that you're not interested in a relationship in a more friendly way.
Don't get me yet?
Ok, think of this way, you like this one chick and you guys go out, have sex. But thwn she says she not interested in you or in a relationship anymore. You would feel somewhat used.
Thats why I believe people should wait to have sex after they're in a serious relationship or with the right person. To avoid this kind of shit
I don't know if I missed it but where did you tell the girl you're intention is just to hook up or have a one night stand? If someone asked me for my number and wanted to hang out with me I would think they actually wanna be with me or be my friend at least longer than for one night... Unless they clearly say I'm just looking to hook up or looking for something casual.
At what point did it appear this was ever just a hookup? I legit read this question thinking the girl screwed you over someway, and I got very confused when I reached "Now she's acting all crazy because I won't answer her calls. Even though I never said I wanted anything and we fucked like it was a one night stand.". I reread that like literally five times in pure confusion. I feel I was tricked by that. Like, it's okay to do hookups and whatever but like, that clearly was never explained ever once.
Nah man you did your shit bro. You told her (funny ass b fuck, im here rolling like crazy.) I say you did what you had to you knew your intension. Sound like she did to by letting you fuck in her car. Like thats not classy thats a quickie. I would understand if ahe to you to her place and shit. But in the car. Shit the fuck your suppose to expect.
You're a prick OP. You never made your intentions clear until after you got sex out of her. Should've made your intentions clear from the beginning. She thought you wanted a potien tial relationship out of her.