Every guy I've ever met (from online dating apps/websites) only wants hookups from me and when I say no to hookups they'd just ignore me. At first they'd be nice, tell me I'm pretty and that they like me and then they ask for sex a week or 2 later and when I say I'm not ready yet they'd just leave and ignore me. So is it something I'm doing wrong where ALL guys only want hookups? Should I just give up on dating and be single forever? Which at this point I don't mind. I mean I'm definitely not looking for something super serious because I know I'm only 18 but I still want something real if that makes sense.
2mo I'm not complaining or I'm not desperate or anything btw! I'm just wondering if that's normal or if there's something wrong with me
You're 18. However, there are guys out there who want something real. It's definitely not you though haha. You have to understand that it's a numbers game with guys, so they just lay it on the table until they get laid.
Most people are on online dating sites and stuff just to get laid. If you say you're not there for that reason you're not worth the effort. Make yourself clear since day once. Let them treat you like a hookup and that's what you're going to be.
Your boobs hanging out say fuck me
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