Every guy I've ever met (from online dating apps/websites) only wants hookups from me and when I say no to hookups they'd just ignore me. At first they'd be nice, tell me I'm pretty and that they like me and then they ask for sex a week or 2 later and when I say I'm not ready yet they'd just leave and ignore me. So is it something I'm doing wrong where ALL guys only want hookups? Should I just give up on dating and be single forever? Which at this point I don't mind. I mean I'm definitely not looking for something super serious because I know I'm only 18 but I still want something real if that makes sense.
Why do guys only want hookups from me?
What Guys Said 11
You're 18. However, there are guys out there who want something real. It's definitely not you though haha. You have to understand that it's a numbers game with guys, so they just lay it on the table until they get laid.2
That's nothing to be sad or mad about, just be thankful that they had walked away, you deserve better1
Nothing wrong with you, those guys are just sex hungry1
I'm classy OP I just want a girlfriend I can snuggle with4
Part of successful dating starts with well choosen targets, sometimes...1
Try dating people you DON'T meet online. It's all in how you present yourself.1
There is nothing wrong with you, most guys at that age just want hookups, including me :)1
You probably spend time with wrong people then.0
Likely your/their age is a factor. The guys who in your interest area are still young and only are looking for sex. With age and maturity, this will change.1
What Girls Said 2
Most people are on online dating sites and stuff just to get laid. If you say you're not there for that reason you're not worth the effort. Make yourself clear since day once. Let them treat you like a hookup and that's what you're going to be.2
Your boobs hanging out say fuck me1