Guys. Give me 5 good reasons why you would never date a girl with kids and let's see if your reasons are the same as mine?
2mo There was a lot of good points to consider, however most are not really my concern. I always wanted kids and would love to watch the grow, however at my age it's no longer possible to start a family and my concern is getting attached to to kids should there be a breakup occur then it's much worse. Then there could and probably would be so much interference from many sides x's and so on. I recently entertained the thought again and relearned a old lesson by getting attached. Stay far away.
I just don't like little kids. Once they're over the age of 10, I can deal, but the other ones, no, can't do it. Kids annoy the piss out of me. I don't want them to pester to me, especially if they didn't fall outta me. I just know that at this point in my life, I'd never love them and see them as my own. Ever. And I'm not going to date a man knowing I can't accept that part of them.
I don't want to be seen as a father figure yet. Not ready for that level of responsibility She won't have enough time and energy for our relationship I'm not good with kids I wonder who's paying her child support and why they broke up ... if they broke up...
I'm a straight girl, I hate kids, I'm already in a monogamous relationship that I've no plans to leave, it'd be too much responsibility for me, and I have a stepdad I hate and don't want to be anyone's hated stepparent
I probably can't give you 5 reasons because since I went back on the dating market most of the women I've dated had kids, probably worked out that way because I had two of my own. I will state my #1 frustration though, not having the same set of rules for her kids and mine if we're going to occupy the same home together.
1, her kids comes before your needs 2 her kids have a dad they call dad but its not you 3 her kids would ask you and if you have kids 4 her kids will try to know more about you and tell stuff you might not want to hear about her 5 her kids man. her problems!