Any advice on how to bring it up to a girlfriend instead of her being surprised when we get intimate?
Most Helpful Girl
Find a woman that loves you for you. Once you two are going to get intimate, don't be worried or stressed out about it, that'll ruin the experience for both of you. Try to pleasure her with your hands and mouth as well. If you are attentive and loving, that would work on some women.
I dated a guy that was below the average. If he actually tried to care for how I felt instead of being selfish in bed, I wouldn't have minded.0
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Most Helpful Guy
Work on ways to make her feel amazing without intercourse!! Have her show you how she likes to touch herself, and what she likes to feel, and then go with that. Get down there, and try some things similar to what she likes, and just spend some time getting to know her body, her feelings, her reactions.
When you get it right, you will know, because she will have some pretty intense feelings, and when she trusts you, and you make her feel good, she will just LOVE those orgasms!!
Once she knows that you know how she likes feeling, without your penis, she is going to be a lot more comfortable, and like yours, even if it isn't the biggest, because it doesn't need to be!!
Your penis is essentially for reproduction, can be a little enjoyable, but it isn't necessary for her to have wonderful feelings and orgasms that you give her!
When you know how to make her feel AMAZING things, without it, she isn't really going to care what size you are, because you know how to make her feel good!!0