I've always wanted 2 procedures. I want the little bump on my nose gone and a somewhat fuller upper lip.
I've decided to have these done in the next few months. The thing is I'm worried about how the guy I'm seeing will react. I'm afraid to talk him about it.
Would it bother you if a girl made changes like these?
Most Helpful Guy
If it's my girlfriend I wouldn't be weirded out but I'd reinforce her that I love the way she looks already and those little flaws is what makes her who she is and that I love them. That she shouldn't be doing this for me but for herself. Honestly if he can't deal with it and respect your decision he is not the right guy for you. And not to say anything else because I don't know the relationship and how far along you are but you are fearful to tell him something maybe your relationship should be examined. Just my thoughts as an outsider. You shouldn't be fearful of telling your partner anything unless for obvious reasons.
@redeyemindtricks thoughts? Lol I remember seeing you saying you've had a boob job I believe.0
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Most Helpful Girl
I think this guy obviously like you already and wouldn't want you to change and if he did, he would be too focused on looks that you shouldn't date him anyway. Having said that, it is your body and your choice so you should never let yourself think you should have an appearance just because men like it. But don't change yourself for a man either, you have to make this decision based on what YOU think because you may not be with this guy forever anyway. Personally, I don't like plastic surgery, it comes with too many risks, and often doesn't turn out as expected. Be yourself and what you are born to look like is my opinion because if you think of it this way, when you're older, you are more likely to regret getting plastic surgery then regret never getting plastic surgery.
Good luck either way though!0