I met him at a bookstore and we hit it off from the start. We have similar interests and enjoy our conversations together. He's very sweet and such a gentleman. Not to mention, he's also pretty good looking.
The past few weeks have been intersecting. He's asked me out to lunch a few times and we have kept in contact through texting and calling every so often. After the third week, I was confused if whether he saw me as just a friend or something more. We had never went to each other's homes until this week.
First, he visited mine. It was nothing special. Just a small, cheap apartment. Today, he took me to have dinner at his place. I was pretty shocked at where he stayed. While we were there, he explained to me that his grandfather was the founder of a major company and currently his father runs the company. He seemed so calm about it and he kept looking at me to see what I'd say. I just tried to keep my cool.
But now that I'm back home, a million thoughts are running through my mind. Right now, I feel like I don't deserve him. He can do WAY better than me. I also don't want people to think I'm a gold digger. That's a bad reputation to have and I don't want to be thought of in such a negative way. And also, I just feel confused. As soon as I got home, I literally started crying. We're not officially dating yet, but I think I should call it quits while we're still in our early stages. I just don't know what I should do.
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First of all, be secure and have self esteem. Why in your right mind would you say that he deserves better. You are going against yourself. You know that you are pretty/beautiful smart, funny, energized etc so keep it like that. There are no stupid leagues in this world for dating. If the guy likes you he likes you, it's that simple.
About the gold digger thing-don't think about it that way. If you like him which it seems like you do and he likes you back then continue dating him. You ARE NOT a gold digger and know that yourself. And if other people want to be complete dicks and judge you thinking you are a gold digger than let them go fuck themselves and jerk off in the corner for the rest of their lives. You shouldn't give 2 fucks about what other people think about you. Unfortunately-there are a lot of selfish, rude, disrespectful, inconsiderate jerks in this world. just avoid them and don't let um screw up your life.
My only concern with this guy would be that he is stuck up and one of those snobby rich ass basterds but it clearly doesn't sound like that from what you have said about this gentlemen. So keep dating him and see where things go.
Ultimately-be yourself, enjoy life while you can, have no regrets, don't let others choose what paths you take in life, and have faith in yourself my friend. Best of luck 😎1