This guy I've been seeing/dating for a month recently added a girl I saw in his phone. No I did not go snooping in his phone. We were hugging in the movies one day and he pulled out his phone, I saw all the text messages from his brothers and friends. One particular one I saw was from a girl and the message box said "name:)<3". I thought oh okay... I can't get mad. I'm not his girlfriend. That same name I saw, he just became friends with on facebook. Now I'm a little angry. I have no right to but I asked him in the beginning if he multi dates. He said no. I even told him something very personal that I normally don't tell anyone because I'm embarrassed about it and felt this was going somewhere. Now I regret it. I met all his friends and he told me that they really like me. I don't know what to do or how to approach this. I feel horrible. I can't compete with her because she's very pretty. What do I do? He was the only thing that was making me feel happy during my rough time right now, now I'm scared I'm about to lose him.
Most Helpful Guy
The guy said he doesn't date anyone else. As far as I know, he didn't say he doesn't bang someone else. what if he is not interested in that girl for anything else than sex? If you start confronting him or blaming him, he will be quick to leave you on the curb. I know that if I was starting to warm up to a girl and she suddenly went psycho, I'd cut it off immediately.
By saying he is not dating someone else, he is saying he is not looking for something else. He is interested in you. He is getting sex on the side while you guys get to know each other better.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Stop thinking so much. You don't know anything forsure yet. She could easily be a really good friend. Even if he did start dating someone else.. Like you said you're not exclusive. Let him decide if he wants to be with you. If he chooses someone over you, you don't want to be with him anyways0