How fast did you go from meeting someone for a first date to becoming serious?

I went from three months to dating.

  • Less than a year
    85% (17)83% (15)84% (32)Vote
  • More than a year
    15% (3)17% (3)16% (6)Vote
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Serious as in you are dating exclusively and no longer looking for anyone else

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I tend to press ahead quite quickly if I feel I have a connection and chemistry with the woman and she's looking for the same things as I am (that's of course when I am not being rejected, I'm on a bit of losing streak at the moment).

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I guess the first date then. I mean after my first date with my boyfriend, we went out for a second date the next day where I met his parents.

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What Guys Said 6

  • Define what you mean by serious

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    • You are dating monogamously, and no longer seeing anyone else

    • If I've reached the level of comfort with her to go exclusive then I have already gained the trust needed to consider things to already be getting serious

    • How ever I was serious with my present wife while we were dating. And it was 2 1/2 years before we got married

  • I dunno but i had a riend

    Met at a club, fucked in the washroom stall... came out dating as boyfriend and girlfriend, went on to date for 4 years 😛

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  • less than a year

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  • 6 minutes after she gave me her backdoor.

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  • never had a date so i dunno

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  • Takes me on average 2 weeks. I'm that good

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What Girls Said 2

  • What do you define as serious?
    Assuming it means being exclusive and viewing marriage as an end possibility... Hmm, I've only dated a few people.
    1st-serious before first date.
    2nd-never got deathly serious but exclusive
    3rd-sooner than I expected, maybe a month or two in. It worked out.

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  • It was less than 4 months since we met that we wanted something serious. I don't know how to describe it, but it was meant to be. I truly love him and he , the same.

    Now. I can't imagine my life without him

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