When I meet someone that I really like, I want to see them as much as possible. I met my ex wife on Jan 10, 1989, We spent every day but 1 together until I went into the Air Force on Feb 14, 1989, I came home May 27, 1989 and proposed. We were together 25yrs and 4 days. She wanted the divorce, not me. We have 3 amazing sons together. Recently, I dated someone in January to begining of march. We had our first date on New Years Day. We were together 66 days total and I saw her 55 of those days. I went back and counted. usually just sitting at her house or mine playing cards or watching TV. So there are many of us men that want to spend as much time as we can with the lady we like. Very normal...
You are usually better at giving advice than most people on here. So, try this:
• Pretend you're someone else reading this site. • Read this question that you just wrote here. • What advice would you give?
I mean... there are probably some cultural understandings that have to be spelled out here, too. Where is this guy from? What culture/country? Not that those things would *excuse* sketchy behavior, but at least they might help you understand where it's coming from, and/or help other people reading this thread understand the context.
Personally, **I** would be sketched out, and I'd be gone... but, I'm not you.
If you were someone else, what advice would you give archiz?