Currently debating with my friend here. We have different approaches to men. I'm a very nice person, but I also know my value and am confident. I may play hard to get by responding later or not always being available. Very lightly though. I'm typically genuine with the guys I interact with. She, however, thinks you should act snobby and bitchy because men like that. For example, this guy didn't respond to my message for a few days. He's a very busy dude. I only sent one message and when he did respond with an apology, I said no worries, and carried on a conversation as normal. She wanted me to respond with "ya know, some people are just busier than others" in a bitchy like manner. Or to not respond at all, or "you don't have to make up an excuse" or something. I always thought that responding bitchy makes you sound more affected by their behavior, and like you're more bothered. By playing it cool, I thought it shows that you're more like whatever and have a life. She thinks it's showing you're a pushover or like them too much. And I always feel like being nice is a good thing. Who wants a bitchy mean woman?
Who is right?
- Nice & somewhat hard to get89% (8)91% (10)90% (18)Vote
- Mean, bitchy, stuck up11% (1)9% (1)10% (2)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Nice and hard to get obviously, a little sass is alluring but if you overcook it and do it with the WRONG guy, you'll be dropped very very fast. Err on the side of caution until you know what the guy's limits are. - because its a very individual thing.0