I have a date with a cute guy I met off bumble for this Saturday night. We talked on and off for 3months, since we were either busy with college or work. Recently, We snapchat each other and follow each other on IG. He has made it know that he thinks I'm pretty and fun from what he has seen in me and on my snapchat stories. But I'm honestly nervous that he may not like ALL of me, meaning my thick thighs and my overall hispanic curves. I have cellulite even though I work out to become healthier (size 11). My older friends friends (25-30yr olds) tell me that I'm so much more than my body and to stop living in fear that people will reject me because of my curves. So, I don't know if this guy will truly be okay with how my body looks in person. I'm learning more and more each day to have self love for my curves. Am I overthinking this date? Would you, men, overlook some slight chubb if you had chemistry with a girl? I don't like it when the first thing some people judge is my size rather my character.
Should I even be nervous for this first date?
What Guys Said 1
Should you be nervous?
Well I think being nervous on the first date is natural, what is important is how you handle your nervousness.0
What Girls Said 1
Oh I completely understand you! I'm also very insecure about my body (I don't have the body of a model either, cellulite and all) and totally understand how devastating these feelings are. BUT! You have a date with him, which of course means that he's interested in you. And, if he's totally into you, it doesn't matter how you look like. Looks fade over time, it happens to all of us.
And of course, some men don't like slim women.0
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